What is Coaching?

You’re probably thinking…

• What do I really want with my life…
• How can I become happier…
• I’m frustrated that life is not the way I want it…
• My friends, colleagues seem more successful than me…
• I feel unmotivated, flat and unchallenged…
• I feel overwhelmed when I make change in my life for the better…
• There has got to be more to life than this…
• How do I make the right choice…
• What other options are out there for me…

Coaching can help you…

• Get clear on personal goals that you will be happy moving towards.
• Plan for a life which inspires you and puts the bounce back into your stride.
• Build the confidence that you need to make decisions that are right for you.
• Learn how to think positively and watch the goals come to you.
• Manage your fear and beliefs to help you get what you want out of your life.

Coaching can help with Life Planning, Personal and Career Development, Confidence Building, Boosting Self Esteem and Stress Management.

Is Coaching right for you?

• Are you unclear about where you want to go in your life?
• Do you feel like you are stuck in a rut?
• Do you frequently wake up in the morning feeling flat and de-motivated?
• Do your friends or colleagues seem happier or more successful than you?
• Do you start plans and never finish them (e.g. weight loss, better fitness)?
• Do you know what you want in your life but don’t know how to get there?
• Are you feeling overwhelmed when you think of making changes in your life?

If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of these questions then consider the following questions to help you decide whether coaching is for you.

• What is it that is causing you to answer ‘Yes’ to any of the above questions? (I suggest that you write a list to help clarify your thoughts).
• How is this affecting your enthusiasm, you ability to bounce out of bed in the morning or just be you all the time? How does this affect your relationship with others, your current stress levels, health and wellbeing?
• What would happen if you were to continue with the same situation and do nothing about it? What would your life look like, sound like or feel like in 6 months time? How much would it cost you in 2 to 3 years, in terms of finance or your own health, through worry, stress, anxiety or burn out?
• If you could make changes to your life right now, how different would your life be in 2-3 years time? What would you see yourself doing differently, or be saying to yourself that would be different? How much would that be worth to you, to begin moving towards a life which you really wanted and were motivated by?
• If you engaged with a coach, who was willing to help you get clear on what you wanted and provide you with resources to get you there, how would you like your life to be different in 3 months time?

Coaching is not therapy or counselling. It is a way of getting you to move towards a life which you want and away from a life which you don’t want.

Soul Purpose Life Coaching uses powerful tools and techniques which can be applied to various areas in people's lives: 

• Personal Development
• Career Advice and Development
• Health, Fitness and Weight Loss Objectives
• Life Planning, Phobias, Building of Confidence and Self Esteem
• Management of Stress, Fear and Anxieties
• Relationship Management
• Better Work/Life Balance

What will happen to me in a coaching session?

I am an experienced master coach and a natural, non-judgemental, objective listener. When you have your first one to one session with me, I will skilfully take you through a series of leading, and sometimes challenging questions, to help bring clarity to your situation.

I am a master on helping you establish a clear direction for yourself and will open you up to new possibilities to getting there, using skills and knowledge which you probably didn’t know you already had.

At the end of the session, we will have clarity on your situation and we will agree to a set of tasks for you to complete to help you move forward before the next arranged session.

The answers that you are looking for lie within you. When you engage with me as a coach you will be guided through a set of questions, which will help you find the answers that you are looking for.  You can expect to receive the following services:

• Life Planning and Goal Setting:
• Know what is important to you, what you want and what you don’t want
• Establish your own life direction (5-7 years strategies)
• Find your hidden strengths, skills and talents
• Open your mind to other possibilities
• Develop strategies for life planning and transition management
• Ongoing coaching and support to get the results you want:
• Motivate yourself to move your life in the direction that you want
• Overcome perceived obstacles and deal with fear and anxiety
• Adopt a simple and practical approach to deal with change and overwhelm
• De-clutter your life to get the work/life balance that you want
• Become aware of changes required to move you forward
• Attain life changing tactics to deal with stress
• Use of numerous tools and techniques which have proven results to help you move forward with your life:
  • Planning and goal setting
  • Visualisation techniques
  • Relationship clarification
  • Motivation techniques
  • Project management
  • Value clarification
  • Strategy illicitation
  • Dreamboarding
  • Timeline work
  • Brainstorming
  • Braindumping
  • Meditation

How many sessions will I need?

I will work with you either through face to face or telephone coaching. The number of sessions you decide to receive will depend very much on your individual situation.  In between each session I will maintain contact with you via email, to make sure that you keep up the momentum that you need. If you choose to receive face to face or telephone coaching, the email service is free of charge.